Looking for Reconciliation
Conversation within the Church community pretty much matches what we read about the decline in the celebration of the Sacrament of Reconciliation. People freely admit to very infrequent confession or the absence of this sacramental rite in their life. Parents of children preparing for First Penance have many questions about how to teach their children and form them about Reconciliation. “How often should we go to confessions?” “What’s the difference with the practice in the confessional and this face-to-face confession?” “How do I explain sin to my child?”
There are also many humorous stories about confessions, whether authentic from their childhoods or jokes about imagined conversations between priest and penitent. Also shared in Catholic conversations are shared bad experiences of dark confessionals and grumpy pastors! These are usually in the context of long lines and waiting nervously for one’s turn. All this is to say that confession, for good or ill, was part of the fabric of our Catholic life and spirituality.
What happened over the last forty years to change our confessional practices? Did people just stop sinning? Or did they lose their sense of what sin is? Have they become religiously indifferent? Have we adjusted our view of how individuals are joined to social groups like families and communities?
The movement away from confession is probably a combination of all of the above situations. Certainly people have not stopped sinning. They view sin differently, or, at least, express the reality of sin and moral failure in contemporary vocabulary. People still look for God in their lives. Social patterns have changed. Psychology and psychiatry have changed and become more acceptable in our mental health lives. People seek to be reconciled with themselves, within their communities and families, and with God. Human and spiritual alienation look to be remedied.
Liturgical Renewal
A possibly unexpected answer may be found in liturgical renewal. More precisely, the answer may be in the renewal of the practice of the Eucharist as the “source and summit” of our Christian life. Catholics have come to discover through “full and active participation” the richness of the Eucharist.
Historically, the initiation process of the Church always brought the faithful through conversion celebrated in baptismal washing and the giving of the Spirit in Confirmation. The newly baptized and confirmed ended their journey at the Lord’s Table, surrounded by the Body of Christ, the Church. This was the ultimate conversion and reconciliation of the believers within the Body of Christ itself.
The practice of the early Church of clinical baptism or reconciliation as “second baptism” witness to an overly positive assessment of the conversion process. In “clinical baptism,” baptism was deliberately put off because of a fear of failing to live out one’s conversion. Baptism and conversion, which is to say initiation, were permanent and once for all. “Clinical baptism” from the Latin “clinicus” or bed, was put off until one’s death bed!